...dont want to express me too early but had a deal on rpgmarketplace (as a seller) and the buyer hasnt sent me the payment so far... the point is that i have already sent him the stuff since i knew him from here... almost a week now has passed...

what should i do?

gyg wrote:I should say the best advice is not to panic. I reckon that I would be happy to post stuff to almost anyone here without recieving payment first.
Drop another PM as a gentle nudge in the right direction if you're really anxious, but I would say this post will probably have the desired effect. (And be sure to let us know when it's all come good).

(As an alternative you could just 'call him out' on the boards and get into a mud-slinging competition, that wil inevitably end badly for all concerned - except for those of us who love to watch such nonsense unfold!! (Mentioning no names, of course   )

Ciao Carl, i have already done that... lets pass the weekend and cross fingers: maybe next week will bring good news!

(ah, BTW, the alternative is out like a balcony!)

gyg wrote:I should say the best advice is not to panic. I reckon that I would be happy to post stuff to almost anyone here without recieving payment first.
Drop another PM as a gentle nudge in the right direction if you're really anxious, but I would say this post will probably have the desired effect. (And be sure to let us know when it's all come good).

(As an alternative you could just 'call him out' on the boards and get into a mud-slinging competition, that wil inevitably end badly for all concerned - except for those of us who love to watch such nonsense unfold!! (Mentioning no names, of course   )

I will attest to that fact.  

I am very glad it worked out for you.

As an aside:
As a buyer (Which is really about 99 % of what I do) I would NEVER expect a seller to send anything before paying the amount due.
As a seller (Which is really about ONE % of what I do) I would NEVER expect to have to send out an item before being paid.

Not faulting your actions (sending the item first) or your logic behind doing so, as fellow members that sort of thing should be a no brainer, trust is always a good thing.
However, verifying (By payment in advance) is even better and all parties involved should be happy with the results.

gyg wrote:(cheers for the parcel BTW - I like it very much )

happy to hear that! hope to read you soon for other "underground trade"!

ciaooo

AdderMcOne wrote:Unfortunately, it was me that Axel was referring to.  

I just wanted to give a public apology for the non-communication.

I had to rush off for my flight to Gencon (Australia) and I didn't have a chance to get back to him.

Sorry again Axel

these bloody aussies.....

sheesh  

*edit* which reminds me bren - happy birthday! and you have a PM too.

no worries Brendon, i was worried about you... i know you from here and had no doubts about your reliability!

anyway, everything went fine at the end and hope to see you soon in my humble store!

ciaooo

axel if you have a problem with him again, let me know - i will call his wife and have a word   

Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo......................!  

ah but axel, i know her. so i can say things in a much better way to get bren into LOTS of trouble    

We will have to promote Al to Acaeum Sergeant-of-Arms.  It will be his job to keep everyone in-line.  One phone call to the wife is all it takes.

Martin