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Post Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 1:59 am 
 

I sold the EPT set on ebay.  Wanted a little more for it, but I need the money more than the pride right now so.



The big hitch is this: the "winner" is from Australia.  The auction clearly states "Will ship to US".



How do I break it to the bidder w/o being dickish about it?

  

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Post Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 2:13 am 
 

Is there any problem shipping to Australia? The buyer has 100% feedback (looks like he has bought from Badmike as well)

You'll find that if he's from here and you don't want to ship to Aussie land that you might be able to foward it on to someone else in the US and then they can ship it on from there?

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Post Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 2:21 am 
 

beasterbrook wrote:Is there any problem shipping to Australia? The buyer has 100% feedback (looks like he has bought from Badmike as well)

You'll find that if he's from here and you don't want to ship to Aussie land that you might be able to foward it on to someone else in the US and then they can ship it on from there?

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He's a good guy....bought a bunch of tekumel stuff from me, paid promptly, and left feedback when he got it.

Priority boxes are easy enough to get, and if you really want to make it easy just get some of the flat rate boxes (so you don't have to even calculate shipping, cost is $37).  The only trouble is filling out the customs form which isn't that much trouble.  If you cut yourself out of the international market you'll leave a lot of money on the table...the dollar isn't worth crap nowadays and our foreign friends are flush with euros!

If you really don't want to ship overseas, I'd just send a polite note informing the guy why you won't mail it.  He seemed like  apretty reasonable dude when I sold to him.

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Post Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 9:54 am 
 

DungeonDelver wrote:I sold the EPT set on ebay.  Wanted a little more for it, but I need the money more than the pride right now so.




I think your auction did very well considering the box looks crunched in the one corner and has a tear and tape.  Also it is a later printing.  I think it would be difficult to get more for this set.  By the looks of it, the other one that recently sold and was in much better shape sold for only $14 more.  For the price you got, I'd ship it anywhere.



If you sell stuff next time, and only want to ship within the US, you should click the sell to US only button so outside US ebay members cannot even bid.  It would probably save you some hassle.

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Post Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 10:13 am 
 

Mars wrote:If you sell stuff next time, and only want to ship within the US, you should click the sell to US only button so outside US ebay members cannot even bid.  It would probably save you some hassle.


Wasn't there a posting about something like this earlier?  Somebody who got into an eBay dispute over whether or not they should receive a non-shipping seller strike because their auction said worldwide but the description said US-only?

Seem to recall that eBay's response to the seller was essentially a combination of "tough" and that shipping restrictions are only truly enforceable via eBay if they're part of the eBay auction info, and not the item description.


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Post Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 10:37 am 
 

Thanks for the responses all...turns out it was much ado about nothing; I thought the missus had put up seller pays shipping on it and was going to take a bath on the whole deal, turns out I misread so no worries.

  


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Post Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 11:07 am 
 

DungeonDelver wrote:I thought the missus had put up seller pays shipping on it and was going to take a bath on the whole deal, turns out I misread so no worries.


I can see how that would be a little bit of a worry. ;)


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Post Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 12:13 pm 
 

g026r wrote:
I can see how that would be a little bit of a worry. ;)


Yeahhhhhh, a $100 sale and a $40 S&H would've sucked the big Blume, eh?

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Post Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 3:20 pm 
 

g026r wrote:
Wasn't there a posting about something like this earlier?  Somebody who got into an eBay dispute over whether or not they should receive a non-shipping seller strike because their auction said worldwide but the description said US-only?

Seem to recall that eBay's response to the seller was essentially a combination of "tough" and that shipping restrictions are only truly enforceable via eBay if they're part of the eBay auction info, and not the item description.



That was the cougar in his thread...


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Post Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 3:22 pm 
 

DungeonDelver wrote:
Yeahhhhhh, a $100 sale and a $40 S&H would've sucked the big Blume, eh?

:lol:



Good to hear.. although thats what we (and I mean people outside the states) have to pay for postage to get our winning to us... Which does suck for us...

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